Transcript 0:00 [upbeat music] Welcome back to the Peggy Smedley Show, the podcasting voice of IoT and digital transformation. Hello, listeners, and welcome back to the Peggy Smedley Show. 0:14 My next guest is going to be a new regular on the show, and she has become a public speaking expert as a direct result of both the triumphs and failures. 0:23 She also teaches leadership communication at the Wharton School and runs a woman's leadership development program. Please welcome Barbara Roche, managing partner at Speakwell Partners. Barbara, welcome back to the show. 0:38 Hey, Peggy. It's great to be with you again. So now, Barbara, let's talk about some of those leadership challenges we face today because as we look at society, there's a lot of them. 0:49 So let's start, start off the show with that. There are. Yeah, let's start with that [laughs] 'cause there's so much there. I wanted to throw a term out to your listeners they may not have heard before. It's called VUCA. 1:01 V-U-C-A. VUCA. And it's from the military, but essentially means volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous, and we live in a VUCA world. 1:13 So the first challenge right now is the constant change, and just listening to your previous guest, I was thinking to myself, "Wow." 1:22 [laughs] The digital twin world and everything that was he, he was talking about as an example. And so what happens is if you are not effective at change management and change leadership, y- everybody will suffer. 1:35 So when we look at this VUCA that you described, you know, what do we need to do to kinda overcome some of those challenges because it seems like there's a lot of them [laughs] right now whether whatever part of the role you serve in a, in a business. 1:50 That's right. And what I would say is you may not be able to control the speed and the volume. That's the V. And that's partly the industry, it's partly technology, and, and, and really nothing's predicab- predictable. 2:05 And so let's go to uncertainty because I really feel like this is the most important one for any leader, any people manager, no matter what industry you're in. 2:15 The brain craves certainty, and when the brain can't make that pattern and that prediction, we go into what's called a threat state. We're off our game. 2:25 So every leader can say things like this: "Well, I can't answer that particular question, but I promise you as soon as we have new information we will get back to you immediately," or, "I will get back to you once I go to this meeting." 2:40 Whatever it is that can create some certainty, 2:44 use it because then you're calming the brain down to handle the complexity and maybe even the ambiguity, which leads me to the second strategy leaders can make around the A for ambiguous, which is 2:57 how can you lower frustration and how can you help people gain clarity on where things are headed? And what that means is, and I know people are very busy, but they gotta hear this, over-communicate. 3:11 Don't cancel your one-on-one meetings. Don't rely only on email, and have time for questions. Don't rush out of a meeting because you didn't think about what your team needed. Isn't that today's society though? 3:27 You know, with all of the texting we do- Yeah... and everything, we just figure email and texting's the way to go. I mean- Yeah... that's the way our mobile society has created us. 3:37 That's right, and things like Monday and Slack and all these tools and apps that people love, I now have a client who in the span of three years went from, "I can't live without Slack," to, "I gotta turn my Slack channels off." 3:51 And so you, you see how we can fill a void really quickly [laughs] because that was only three years worth of time. So never, ever lose sight of the fact that followers, and that's what we could call anybody who is 4:06 trying to lead a group of people. We will call them followers, the people who choose whether to follow you or not. 4:13 What they need is face-to-face, and if you have a virtual team, I understand that's sometimes hard, so at least electronically where you have a video camera. 4:22 And you'll see now with apps like Zoom and Skype where I find that my clients make it a requirement that people's cameras are on because it enhances that connection. 4:35 So what characteristics then do these great leaders have? Are they outspoken? Are they charismatic? What, what do they really have that make a good leader right now besides what you say not to be having- Right... 4:48 this ambiguity that we... But are there certain characteristics of a great leader? 4:53 There really are, and there are some foundational characteristics that I believe cross every industry, and then of course there are some that will be unique to certain industries, like pharma will have a certain thing that, let's say, construction doesn't need. 5:07 The foundational aspects are a shift from command and control, the old days, I tell you what to do, you do it, I monitor that you did it and how well you did it, moving to two new words. 5:22 So what's replacing command and control is guide and inspire. Guide and inspire. 5:29 The guide is I'm gonna care about your professional development, and I'm gonna guide you through the expectations of what a quality job means to us on our team. I'll give you input and feedback and support. 5:42 And then the inspire is I'm gonna show you how much I care about this organization, this team, and the vision that we all have and where we're trying to get to. So lose the command and control. Add guide and inspire. 5:59 So now I'm gonna ask this- And then what I would say secondly... Okay. Go ahead. Go ahead. No, go ahead.I was going to say, the second thing is, for a foundational, is you can't say enough about self-awareness. 6:10 So a leader who's clueless, has many blind spots- [laughs] -will not have very many followers for very long. So what can you do to enhance your own self-awareness of your strengths? 6:20 Any areas that need work, where you could modify. Everybody wants to work for a leader who's constantly learning and evolving. 6:29 So that was gonna be my question, is be-- do we think we have enough leaders who want to inspire and mentor the next generation? 6:37 [laughs] Because we have a generation that wants that guidance but doesn't really know that they need it, because we've kind of flipped that kind of thing where the younger generation doesn't want to teach, yet the older generation- Yeah... 6:51 doesn't want to be taught. It, it's kind of like we've kind of flipped that paradigm upside down. That's right. And what I would say to that is that y-you, you have to decide where your values are. 7:07 Where does your team live? What do they care about? What makes the team tick? 7:11 And then essentially, could you show the ways in which you are trusting and trustworthy so that, let's say, I'm about to make a mistake or I made a mistake, I could go to a peer, a boss, a colleague from another department, and, and share it immediately instead of hiding it. 7:30 So there's, there's ways in which guide and inspire pays off for anybody. You do not have to be a charismatic leader and be sort of the life of the party to be an inspirational leader. 7:44 It's done through your work ethic, your high standards, your output, your putting in the time. So there's many ways to inspire. And you're right about the teaching. There's... 7:57 There has to be a value of continuous learning. And so where does that happen? Well, what I would say to my clients is, "Look at the seventy/twenty/ten rule, and you have to be in charge of this yourself. 8:10 Don't have to rely on your boss for this. You need to do it yourself." Seventy percent of our learning and our development comes on the job, 8:19 and that's direct experience ourselves, like especially if, you know, you're clicking around on something. Let's say you're learning a pivot table in Excel. You click and make a mistake, you learn. 8:27 Or you have a, a boss or a mentor or someone who has the expertise that you can go to. Then the twenty percent is coaching, mentoring, sponsorship. And finally, the ten percent is the formal sit-down classroom learning. 8:44 So if a leader is truly developing their team, they're paying attention to that seventy percent for sure and creating opportunities to learn. 8:55 I tell you, Barbara Roach, managing partner of Speak Well Partners, I'm looking forward to you being a regular and talking to us and educating us more. Thank you so much. 9:03 What's your URL so our listeners can follow up with you? Speakwellpartners.com. It's a great place to go. [laughs] Hey, Barbara, thank you so much. 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